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The Life Giver
by Tumika Patrice Cain
Woman. That intriguing mystery of gentleness, love, grace.
The one who holds the gift of God’s redemptive love in the very fiber of her
being. Woman. She is the ultimate life-giver.
Beneath fancy hair, pretty clothes, and a sexy sashay, lies
a vessel whose depth cannot be measured. Often seen as the ‘weaker’ sex, she is
strong in the ways that matter most. Her mind never stops processing as she
looks for a way to add one more task to her already full plate. After all, she
doesn’t want to let anyone down and there is always someone depending on
her. Her hands never stop working. From
preparing meals to ironing clothes to writing papers to signing checks to
offering a gentle touch upon a cheek, there is always something for her to do.
She looks for one more way to fit it all in, rarely complaining.
Another woman knows why she cries without provocation. Often
to men she’s just overly emotional. But it is rarely spoken how often her own
needs go unmet, how lonely her heart feels, and how unappreciated she is, as
those around her take from her without giving a moment’s thought what she might
need. It’s always do for me, take care of me, love me, support me, be there for
me…and she tries. Lord knows she does. She wants to help all of those around her
be the best that they can be, even at the expense of herself. Inside, her heart
screams “what about me? Do I matter?” In her rare quiet moments she laments to
God asking, “Do I matter? Does what I need or want or how I feel matter to
anyone other than me?”
Inside that beautiful woman, and yes she is
beautiful…regardless of her outside aesthetics…is an intelligent person capable
of solving many of this world’s problems singlehandedly….degrees not required.
And please don’t miss my point. There is nothing wrong with having advanced
education. There are just some things that cannot be taught. She’s a
cheerleader, a coach, a teacher, a doctor, a counselor. She is a
miracle-worker. She’s the keeper of time, the wiper of tears, the tender place
to land when the harshness of this world hits too close to home. She is
forgiveness. For how many times has her heart be broken, how many times has she
been disappointed by the actions of others, how many times has she had to put
herself back together from another’s careless words? Yet she still finds it
within herself to offer another chance. A chance that far too often is
perceived as a weakness. It’s not weakness. It is a strength that says, “I
believe in the best of you. I believe there is more in you than the worst you
have shown me of yourself. I am giving you another chance to show me.”
It is well known that inside a woman’s womb lies the ability
to bring forth life. Did you know that she is a life-giver every single day?
She has the capacity to bring forth life in her words, in her actions, in her
deeds, in how she lives her life. In her mouth are the words that bring up
another generation of the greatest vessels who will ever live. In her tender
touch is the ability to transfer a message of love, the very essence of life.
In her smile she urges life to continue, offering encouragement to one who
wants to give up. In her tears, is the cleansing balm needed to soothe a weary
soul. In her hug, is the healing that is longed for from a life of too many
hurts. In her eyes, is the silent
message telling that one to keep going.
Celebrate the gift of life that exists all around you. This
is a twofold message. One to those who have taken for granted the gift of life
they have been given by the amazing, wonderful, strong and tender women around
them. Look in the eyes of that woman and, possibly for the first time, truly
see her. See the depth of her love. See the tenderness of her heart. See how
the actions and words of others hurt her…and vow to do better. Honor this chosen
vessel as the blessing she is in your life. And never let her forget how
important and special and valued she is.
This is also to the women who need a reminder who and what
they are. A reminder whose they are.
If the woes of this life have gotten so deep inside that as a woman you’ve
forgotten who you are, then let this serve as a gentle reminder to claim all
that is you. Your softness is not a weakness. Your love is not a curse. Your
care is not a liability. You are a unique example of God’s amazing love and
tenderness. You are a gift. A beautiful, exquisite gift to mankind. Embrace all
that you are and choose to give life into every situation, into every
circumstance. Your efforts are not in vain.
Changing lives one word at a time…Tumika Patrice Cain
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Tumika Patrice Cain is an award-winning author, media personality,
and motivational speaker. Through her imprint, Inkscriptions Publishing &
Media Group, she provides high quality, affordable, mentor-based publishing
services to indie authors, as well as inspired, empowering messages of hope and
abundance through her media outlets. Her works can be found in many
publications, including Fresh Lifestyle Magazine. She is the author of the
award-winning Seasons series. To learn more about Tumika, her books, and her
services visit the following websites. http://www.TumikaPatrice.com
and http://www.InkscriptionsPMG.com
